With Friends Like These - Vol. V

She was a walking contradiction. Looking at her she looked like a hippie chick pulled straight from the 1970s. Bell bottoms, wife beater and long straight hair. Kind of like Cher had back in the day only this chick was a blonde.  She loved the Mary Jane, and as I later came to discover, she was very free spirited I guess would be one word for it. I don't want to slut shame anyone but, I mean, you got to call a spade a spade. This girl hooked up with at least, minimum five or six guys from our friend group. And her choice of guys, was really very suspect. I would venture to say three of them would not have stood a chance with any other girl in that group. Even though two of those guys were actively, aggressively trying to hook up with multiple girls from that friend group. I was not one of them! I have to be honest I was never attracted to her, never interested in her, which is probably why we became friends. Because we never crossed that line. Ironically it may be because of that that she end up becoming friends with a girl who I was FWB with one and then a few years later she introduced me to a girl I ended up dating for a while. And boy that girl told me all kinds of dirt that I hadn't known about the hippie chick and random guys she'd hook up with. Including a co-worker and was later invited to that dude's wedding. Lol

But the reason I mention this whole hippie, free-spirited attitude that she had is, because politically, she leaned very much to the right. Ultraconservative, like I know she was pro W back in the day. 

But anyway the reason we ended that friendship had everything to do with my breakup with her friend. 

There were some things I confided with hippie chick because I felt since she was friends with my soon-to-be ex that she could maybe let my ex know it's a lost cause stop wasting everyone's time. Don't make it more difficult. That's what I assumed she would have done. Instead she told my ex everything I was telling her and what she needed to do to try and win me back.  And I found out because of what I mentioned the other day, chumming the water. They were a little bits of information that I gave hippie chick that when my ex wanted to come and talk, have a sit down she brought up those points that there's no way she could have known unless she had been prompted to mention them. It was clear to me she had picked her side.